I feel that the scene, or at least the younger part of the scene that frequently attends shows at Static Age, Metal Frat, etc., has the general attitude that racism is something inherently unethical, as they should might I add. That being said, I don't think that our scene is often confronted with situations in which people might be able to show their racist colors, as it were. I commend James for talking about racism (and how fucked it is) during Face Reality sets, as of late. There are clearly people who are passionate about being anti-racist, and it's great to see, but I think that more people should be taking a stand regarding the subject. To agree with Brennan, passive racism is still racism.
All of this being said, I think that our scene has an entirely fucked sense of sexual and gender equality. Calling someone a faggot, or telling every girl "let me get some of that" isn't funny, and is not okay. To say that it's not a big deal is pretty ignorant. Nobody could possibly know how every other person in the scene/state/world is going to react to hearing something like that. You might not give a shit that you're being called a fag by your friend, but I guarantee that someone else in the room is probably not okay with hearing something like that. I'm not trying to call anyone out, and I'm certainly not saying that I'm free of blame, but I think that if we're going to say that racism is wrong, then we need to be saying the same things about bigotry in all forms.
Punk and Hardcore are supposed to be a safe place for people who aren't necessarily accepted in "normal" society. The music that all of us undoubtedly love created a scene that helped to pioneer gender, race, and sexual equality. Next time you catch yourself saying something that isn't "PC", take a second to consider how you might be making others feel. No one is so funny or important that they have the right to violate another's "safe place".
We've done too many amazing things with our scene to fuck it up with behavior like this.
Sorry for the long response, but I really wanted to share some thoughts that I've been harboring for a while now.